I first came across this poem, 'A Ritual to Read to each other', and its poet William Stafford, in 1990, when the American poet Robert Bly read it as part of an evening of poetry on a men’s retreat, and I felt I was hearing words that spoke to my soul’s purpose, words that set out some simple, challenging truths that could guide me if I chose to listen. I do believe that it is, as he says, important that 'awake people be awake'; it’s what I want for myself and for everyone I meet, coach, work and share life with.